S1E2 If I Got Engaged Today, These Are The Things I Would Discuss With My Partner

Monica Welch, owner of Vaux Studio in Philadelphia, shares her journey of starting a small wedding venue and the evolution of the small wedding industry. She explains how she was inspired to create a space for smaller weddings after struggling to find a venue for her own intimate wedding. Monica discusses the societal pressure to have a big wedding and the financial consequences that come with it. She emphasizes the importance of being true to yourself and your partner when planning a wedding and the significance of being present on your special day. When deciding what type of wedding is best for a recently engaged couple, it is important to have open and honest conversations about wants, needs, and financial feasibility. Couples should prioritize their own desires and not feel pressured by others' expectations. Smaller, more intimate weddings allow for more personalization and the ability to invest in what truly matters to the couple. Celebrating the wedding over a longer period of time, such as with a reception or anniversary party, can spread out the festivities and make the experience more enjoyable. It is also important to remember that there are no longer strict rules or stigmas surrounding weddings, and couples have the freedom to create a day that is unique and meaningful to them.

 

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00:00 Introduction and Background of Vaux Studio

02:50 The Evolution of the Small Wedding Industry

09:12 Navigating Societal Pressure and Financial Consequences

15:07 The Importance of Being Present on Your Wedding Day

27:12 Deciding on the Best Type of Wedding

28:55 Prioritizing Your Desires and Needs

31:42 The Benefits of Smaller, Intimate Weddings

32:42 Spreading Out the Wedding Celebrations

43:09 Breaking Free from Traditional Wedding Expectations